Why Writing a Will Is an Act of Care
We don’t often like to think about death, especially our own. But carving out time to make a will is one of the most generous things you can do for your loved ones. It’s less about possessions and more about clarity, peace, and easing future burdens.
For many of us in the Pacific Northwest (whether we’re tending to our gardens, hiking along the river, or enjoying a quiet Sunday morning), the idea of creating a will might seem far off. But preparing one now ensures your values and wishes stay intact when you can’t speak for them yourself.
Tip 1: Get Clear on What You Own
Before deciding who gets what, take inventory. This means more than just your home or bank account. Include keepsakes, outdoor gear, family heirlooms, even your pets.
Make a list:
- Physical items (home, car, jewelry, tools)
- Financial accounts (checking, retirement funds, insurance)
- Sentimental belongings (heirlooms, artwork, photo albums)
- Digital assets (photos, cloud storage, social media)
With everything listed in one place, it becomes easier to match your belongings with the people who’ll appreciate them most.
Tip 2: Choose an Executor You Trust
Your executor will carry out your wishes after you’re gone. They don’t need to be a legal expert, but they should be organized, dependable, and calm under pressure.
It could be a sibling, adult child, or close friend who understands your values. Always ask first. It’s a big responsibility, and it helps to know they’re willing.
Tip 3: Be Thoughtful with Sentimental Items
It’s common to write “divide everything equally,” but that can cause confusion. If your daughter loves your quilt or your grandson cherishes your fishing gear, say so.
In a close-knit town like Hillsboro, where stories and heirlooms carry deep meaning, clear direction can help prevent tension and honor your memory in just the right way.
Tip 4: Don’t Forget About Your Digital Life
Photos, email accounts, music playlists—your digital presence is part of your legacy.
Make a simple document with passwords and instructions for your online accounts. Let your family know how you want things handled, from saving family photos to closing social media pages.
Tip 5: Make a Plan for Your Pets
Animals are part of the family. Oregon law allows you to include pet care in your will or create a pet trust. Whether it’s your cat, dog, or backyard chickens, choose someone who would love them and make sure they’ll have what they need.
Tip 6: Review It Regularly and Keep It Safe
A will isn’t one-and-done. Update it if you move, remarry, or welcome new grandchildren. Try to review it every year or two.
Keep the signed copy somewhere secure, like a fireproof safe or locked drawer. Make sure your executor knows where to find it.
You Don’t Have to Figure It Out Alone
You can write a basic will online, but many folks find peace of mind working with a local attorney, especially if you own property or have a complex family setup.
MorningStar of Hillsboro often hosts educational events on topics like this. Feel free to reach out if you’d like recommendations or to join a future session.
One Step That Makes a Big Difference
Writing a will is like packing your hiking bag before heading out. It may not be exciting, but it sets the path for those who come after you. If you’re just starting, begin small. Jot down a list, talk to someone close, or attend a community seminar. There’s comfort in being ready.
At MorningStar of Hillsboro, we support independent living with purpose and dignity. Our community is made for intentional living. Whether you’re planning your next outing or your legacy, we’re here to help you feel grounded and prepared.
